courtship ISLAM

1. Do not be alone with a boyfriend in a quiet place, unless accompanied by a mahram of the woman (so all three)"Let not a man berkholwat (alone) with a woman except with mahromnya ..." [HR Bukhari: 3006.523, 1341 Muslim, Al Manahi Ash View Mausu'ah Shariah 2 / 102]"It is not a lonely man bersepi (alone) with a woman but a demon that all three" (HSR.Tirmidzi)2. Do not go with a girlfriend more than a day and night unless she is accompanied by a mahram"It is not lawful for a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to travel day and night with no mahromnya." [Bukhari HR: 1088, Muslim 1339]3. Do not walk around with a girlfriend to a distant place unless the woman was accompanied by mahram"... .. Do not be traveling with a woman except with mahromnya ...." [HR Bukhari: 3006.523, Muslim 1341]4. Do not touch with a girlfriend, no hugging, no touching, no kissing, even shaking hands is also not allowed, let alone more than just a handshake
 "If someone in the head with a needle puncture of the iron is better than touching a woman who is not lawful for him." (Hasan hadeeth Thobroni history in al-Kabir Mu'jam 20/174/386 and Rauyani in Musnad: 1283, see Ash Shohihah 1/447/226)Said Rasulullahi sallallaahu 'alaihi wassallam: "Actually I do not shake hands with women." [HR Malik 2 / 982, Nasa'i 7 / 149, 1597 Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah 2874, Ahmad 6 / 357, etc.]5. Do not look at genitalia girlfriend, each must wear clothes that cover her nakedness"Say to the believers men let their gaze and guard his cock .." (Qur'an Sura al Nur verse 30)"... Adultery both eyes are looking at ...." (Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawud and Nasa'i)6. Do not talk about / do the things that makes slipping into adultery"And come not nigh to fornication, adultery actually it is an act of evil and a bad way" (Qur'an Surah Al Isra 32)"Both hands are zinanya adultery and inappropriate touching, adultery and zinanya legs are moving, and mouth and zinanya adultery is kissing." (Reported by Muslim and Abu Dawud)7. Do not procrastinate marry each other if it is felt appropriate"O young people! Whoever of you capable of wedlock, then nikahlah, because marriage is more subduing views, and further fortify vagina (genitalia). And whoever can not afford, then let him fast (shaum), because it can fortify himself shaum ". (Saheeh Hadith Reported by Ahmad, Bukhari, Muslim, Tirmidhi, Nasa'i, Darimi, Ibn Jarud and Bayhaqi)."The most human-to-plunge in the Fire is the mouth and genitals." (HR Turmudzi and he said this hadeeth saheeh.)WARNING:in fact many scholars and religious teacher who forbids courtship, such as religious teacher Muhammad Umar Sewed. so you should soon get married and do not dating ...
 For those who have already sinned bertaubatlah and then do not despair, God would forgive his servant who repent and beg for forgiveness ...